A little self awareness goes a long way.

• Know yr strengths,weaknesses,hopes,fears;
• Choose your battles carefully and deliberately;
• Fight your battles with your all,playing to your strengths and do not bother trying to prove yourself to others;
• Instead of perfecting your weaknesses,surround yourself with people who complement you;
• Give generously and courageously of your love,cheer,charm,and goodwill;
• Assert your boundaries and make your NO be known;
• As far as is depends on you,live at peace with all;
• Spend quality time as well as quantity time with your loved ones.
• Say "I love you", meaning it, with no connotation, sexual or otherwise - and keep your moral integrity, authority, and purity.
• Laugh at yourself and encourage others to laugh at your sillinesses.
• And remember that noone can, or should, respect you more than you respect yourself.